Who it is for
The person who is grieving.
Condolence message
Write a thoughtful condolence message that is simple, respectful, and not overdone.
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When to send a condolence message
Send as soon as you hear, or before the funeral if you will not attend. A late short note is still better than silence.
What to include
The relationship
How you knew the person who died, if that helps.
A simple acknowledgement
You do not need a unique insight.
An offer, if real
A meal, a call, or nothing extra — only what you will do.
Mistakes that weaken the letter
Silver linings
Do not explain the death.
Making it about you
Keep the note on them.